19 Hiccups Even The Happiest Couples Experience
Every relationship goes through a challenging phase where things are not as rosy as they might have seemed during initial days. Getting over these hiccups and leading a happier life is what makes a relationship perfect.
Below are listed the most common of these hiccups that every couple might have faced.
1. Tough Questions
It happens at times that a person in a relationship asks a tough question as “Why do you like me?”. A tough question indeed and the other one has no ready answers.
2. Offensive Words
At times one does get offensive in a relationship and the other partner has to wonder if they had chosen the right partner.
3. The initial euphorbia is over
The initial euphorbia of love and passion gets over after a while and one wonders if it was love in the first place.
4. Dreams broken
You might wake up from a dream in which you were with your boyfriend or girlfriend planning something really naughty. However, when you get up, the realization sinks in and drinking your morning cup of tea is the only option left.
5. Lifetime of Fidelity
You might be thinking of a life full of fidelity with someone you adore. However, the reality is that it was never possible and you could only grudge over it.
6. Revelations of the past
The past life of your partner might have been shady. Once it is revealed, the relationship is likely to go under some hiccups.
7. Your partner is experiencing mental blockade
Your partner might have wished to do things differently as you had planned them to be. This difference in thought process does create a mental blockade which is a bit hard to get over.
8. The lies of partner gets caught
The lie that your partner speaks might get caught someday. This creates a divide in the family and it takes a while to heal it.
9. Your place as an important person gets lost
Your partner might have undergone some traumatically difficult phase and someone else than you comes up to console them. This would be a tough position as your place as the most important person in their life gets lost.
10. You fight with your partner
Fights are common in any relationship. However, the couples make up too soon. At times however it goes beyond the wall and things take time to heal.
11. Doing work on your own
You might agree to do things on your own, even when things could be done in tandem. This happens often and partners end up doing things on their own. The work might be regular household chores though varying from cleaning the floor to washing utensils.
12. Jealously takes over
Jealously might overtake you at times and you would not even acknowledge the good work of your partner.
13. Partner might behave in an unrealistic manner
Your partner might behave in an unreal manner which might be not worthy of their real self.
14. Hobby of your partner turns you off
The hobby or liking of one of the partner makes the mood of other sober. This is natural in a relation and things do get normal after a while.
15. New member in the family
You might end up talking about the traits that you wish your child inherits from you as you think that your spouse does not have them.
16. You avoid visiting some places
You avoid visiting certain places associated with your past days. This creates unusual commotion and you might find it difficult to handle.
17. The apology might seem false
The apology for a mistake you committed might seem false to your partner. Though your intentions might be genuine, the damage is still not undone.
18. You wish to improve your behavior
You might know that things are bad because of behavior but you are not able to take the corrective measures.
19. The romance might be short lived
The romantic phase in your life might be short lived and you might wish to relive those moments again.