I Hated Staying Alone Before, Now I Enjoy
Life was always painful in earlier days as I had been alone since long. I would often brood on the happier times I spent during my childhood with my parents. However as they passed away and I did not marry, life was always a lonely affair.
However, lately I have started to enjoy this solitude as I found a way out to be happy.
Enjoyed the Life
Enjoying being alone was tough initially but when I perceived this too be a part of life, I started enjoying it. I started interacting with those around me and tried to be a part of their lives. I therefore found someone who cared for me and made me feel a part of their lives.
Tried many things
Experimenting with life helped me to enjoy the same to the fullest. I traveled often and met new people. Visiting new places broadened my horizon and I ended up meeting people who turned out to be friends for life.
Kept a Pet
Having a pet can increase the joy of being single and alone. My pet compensated for the emptiness that i felt at any point. I was always busy in caring for the pet and was always occupied.
The happiness index naturally increased with a pet as a companion and my pet never came up with usual complaints and mood swings that I would have been exposed to, in case I was to be in a relation or living with someone.
In a normal family scenario, I would have had commitments to keep and promises to honor. This understandably was never the case as i was alone. The time and effort i would have spent in pampering my family members was oriented at me.
I naturally enjoy pampering myself as all the time and money is at my disposal and i can spend the same on me.
Ample Time to Fulfill my Passions
Being alone gave me a perfect opportunity to fulfill my desires and passions. Be it reading, writing or travelling, I can do all, as I am alone. In fact, I have started enjoying my single status.
People often question my being alone. However, the life is for me to live and all its challenges and goodness are for me to bear. I never get carried away with what all others think and perceive about me.
At the end of the day it is my life which matters and i should be in a position to satisfy myself. I enjoy being alone and live my life to the fullest.